Diaper Fetish?? My boyfriend just told me he has a diaper fetish and hes coming back to see me finally. And i want to make him happy but i dont really know what its about. I get thats you put on a diaper but what else. Anything would help. |
I am often amazed at the reaction this particular fetish gets. I believe it to be one of the most misunderstood fetishes around. It has such a diverse range that it isn't well know in mainstream as far as kinks go. I do know several people that are into "Infantilism" which is the proper clinical term for the fetish. (Yes, it's prominent enough to have been studied by physiologists). You seem like a very open minded person, and so here are a few web sites that you might find helpful in your research.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paraphilic_…
understanding.infantilism.org/ (best in my opinion)
www.geocities.com/heartland/meado…
www.toddlertime.com/dx/regression…
www.dailydiapers.com/infantilism.…
Don't listen to everyone, look inside yourself to determind if you will be okay with this. Talk to your BF, communication is the key to ANY relationship.
Good luck, and hope all goes well. |
Diaper fetish? im 15 and a crossdresser but im strait and kinda have a fetish for diapers. is this normal to have somthing like this and if its not what are some things i can do to stop having these feelings.
also should i come out to my mom |
there are fetishes for everything, so i don't think diapers are the craziest out there. If you google it, you'll find a lot more people into diapers like you.
Don't come out to your mom just yet. You should discover your preferences more and explore why this is something you like. In the end, you may not like that kind of stuff. |
How to seriously get rid of diaper fetish? I have been interested in diapers since age 15 and have started wearing goodnites to adult diapers, but without parents knowing about it. I am struggling to maintain relationship with my girlfriend by hoping to get rid of my diaper fetish and not to let her know about it. Can anyone give your advice on what i should do? |
You have a couple of choices.
You can go cold turkey, throw out all your diapers and never buy anymore. This rarely works.
You can get professional help. This means that you will have to tell your parents.
Or you can just keep wearing and enjoying them. |
Should i tell my wife i have a diaper fetish? I have had a diaper fetish since I was a teenager. Lately I have had the urge to tell my wife but afraid of what will happen to our relationship. Will it ruin our relationship? Can she even look at me the same? Should I just keep it a secret? |
Keeping secrets is not good in a relationship, especially not if you're married. I don't know all the details, so I can't predict what it will do to your relationship, but it's definitely something that people can have strong reactions to. A lot of it depends on the way you bring it up, but if you have a strong relationship I'm confident that you can work with it.
Either she's going to find about it eventually, or you'll be unhappy because you can't indulge in it. The best thing to do is to tell her about it. |
Can you pharmacy clerks tell who has a diaper fetish? Ok this question has been pondering my mind for a long time. Can you actually tell from someone who has a diaper fetish from someone who actually needs them? If so how? |
| Who cares? If you want them and want to spend the money be my guest. |
Are there any girls out there who have a diaper fetish? I was just wondering if there are any women out there who wear diapers for a sexual fetish. It seems mostly men find this appealing. Are there any women who enjoy wearing a diaper? |
| Yes, there are some women out there who enjoy wearing diapers. Although the majority of diaper fetishists are men it's not a fetish that is only for men. |
What would you do if you found out that your friend had a presence on a diaper fetish site? ...and as you read through your friend's profile history there, that he expressed through some of his posts that he tries to roleplay a 5-year-old who wets the bed.
Say this is someone you know in real life. IN this scenario, he gives a link to his profile on a different website, and you decide to Google his username from that link. It returns profile pages for many websites, including diaper fetish sites, so that's how you find out. |
| I would be cool with it. He, like many other people, has a fetish. His just happens to be for diapers. The worst thing that you could do is tell anyone else about it. It could ruin his life if that info gets into the wrong hands. |
Why do people get all weird when a person has a diaper fetish and understanding when they need to wear them? I understand that wanting to wear diapers isn't "normal" but why be weirded out by it. The tone towards people who are older, and in diapers, asking questions on here seems to be anger and weirdness.
I don't wear them but I don't see a problem with anybody who had a diaper fetish even if they did in fact need them. |
A diaper, in and of itself, is a good thing. It provides a biological and hygienic need. However, once a person is able to function in daily life without one, the benefits of diaper-wearing are vastly dwarfed by the negative aspects: immaturity, smell, etc. This is why a psychologically healthy person resists the idea of wearing a diaper unless absolutely necessary.
According to Dictionary.com (1), a fetish is "a form of sexual desire in which gratification depends to an abnormal degree on some object or item of clothing or part of the body". So, if a person truly had a "fetish" about diapers, they would actually *require* a diaper in order to obtain sexual satisfaction. Since this is not the way the human mind and body normally function, it would actually be a form of psychosis, which most people are uncomfortable with.
Finally, a diaper is a tool, just like crutches, a wheelchair, an oxygen tank, or a prosthesis. If you were to discover that someone used a tool such as this without biological need, you would either become suspicious of their honesty or their sanity. The discovery of a genuine fetish involving the object would only heighten the suspicion and discomfort.
Many people have difficulty relating to the psychological ramifications of any sort of fetish; many fetishes are related to unpleasant past experiences or abuses. The assumption of a diaper fetish is not that the person wishes to be filthy, but rather to return to an infant state of complete dependence upon another person. A person who recognizes the source of their fetish may eventually outgrow it after dealing with the past experiences it is rooted in.
As for being weirded out, humans tend to be uncomfortable with things that are contrary to natural law, because they are generally uncomfortable with that which they cannot understand. |
I have a diaper fetish, should i tell my wife? I have a diaper fetish since I was a teen. I have always kept it a secret. Lately I have had the urge to tell my wife by worried about the ramifications. How will she react? Will she look at me the same ever again? |
| Dont tell her unless she understands you very well, because i do not understand why you have a diaper fetish... |
Would you go out with a guy that said he had a diaper fetish? The kind of diaper fetish where someone says they'd like it if you put them in an adult diaper, fed them a Big Gulp and a lot of food, then refused to let them use the bathroom?? Like, you'd go see a bunch of movies and the guy would be sitting right there beside you messing himself in his diaper. Thoughts on this? |
thats a lil weird for me, but im sure some1 out there has the same fetish...
good luck |